I knew a girl that was EMBARRING...and she knew it...she just loved to see us squirm...i thought she is?

hatefull...so i slowly...i mean slowly STOPPED HANGING OUT WITH HER..;.then i moved......I thought i did the right thing...because if i would have told her....i feel in my heart she would HAVE SLANDERED ME...so did i do the right thing???That way she just knows we went in different directions; nothing personal...